
Once, in an online discussion, I was told that the idea of a Giver Culture sounds wonderful, but how would we survive if we gave everything away for free? For some people give and give until they are in debt, which isn’t a very sustainable way to be, and definitely could not support a whole culture.
But the core idea of the Giver Culture is not to simply give more than you have the means to give (which would surely put you into debt), but to change our behaviors from a material consuming culture to an open information-skill consuming culture, and to share what we have learned with others.
If you even spent an hour a week teaching a subject at a community college to a class of 15, you would be a Giver. This is more valuable than a material gift in many ways. Passing on knowledge/skills is the type of gift that keeps on giving. Maybe teaching 15 people is no big deal, but what if we had a culture where this was considered normal? Where the majority of people did this from time to time? Surely teaching a single class a week would not put you into debt, but you would be a Giver. In such a culture having knowledge and skills to pass on might be more of a mark of prestige than having money. And, besides deliberating illness, how could anyone take away such wealth? There is also the famous maxim ‘Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you teach him for a lifetime.’
Gifts that keep on giving are like seeds. A seed might grow a fruit tree, which is valuable in of itself, but it also grows viable seeds within the fruits that can grow other fruit trees. Once we start thinking along these terms, we start truly giving.
Also, I tend to think that this type of behavior might slowly ease us off money. Why? Because first, such behavior once adopted by more and more of the human race will lower the population. Many countries that are developed now have a negative population rate. It has also been shown that in places, such as Bangladesh, where micro-loans have been given out with the condition that the borrowers attend weekly educational seminars, population rates have dropped drastically. Advanced education seems to have the effect of reducing the population. Especially when and if education is freely available to women.
With a lowering population, but an existing infrastructure and knowledge base, there will be more for everyone.
Also, with a culture that highly values creation and discovery, we would be creating solutions that would reduce our material needs. Cheaper energy, cheaper goods, cheaper communication etc. This would slowly ease us off money. In some ways this is already happening. Facebook provides a lot of value for its users, but I barely pay anything but my internet connection for it (which is becoming faster and/or cheaper every year). There are plenty of free things available, digitally.
Of course material costs are expensive, but with many advances into nanotechnology and quantum computing, there will be a time (and there are plenty of recent advances in this field) that atomic structures will be as easy to manipulate as computer data. Then we will be able to replicate and copy at will, using any source of matter as our base. In a Giver Culture, this knowledge/technology would be made available freely (or at least cheaply). It would be like Linux, or Firefox. It would be Open Source.
The problem is, in a consumer culture, is that we have come to value having many material possessions. We don’t currently value creating, discovering, sharing or cooperation. So our current lifestyle costs us a lot. It costs us a lot in that it demands much of the world around us and it doesn’t share. It doesn’t give back.
Of course there are individuals who give and share, create and cooperate, discover and create value that wasn’t there before. But those are usually individuals or small groups stuck in a consumer based culture. If those individuals and small groups connected with other like minded givers around the world, they would soon form a culture. This culture would help each other out, grow and become stronger in their giver-oriented values. Then this would have an effect of swaying the entire world.
Such a culture would advance rapidly. It would be obvious that they would have wealth and riches beyond the average of the ordinary population. Being in a culture is vital, since it is an ecosystem in which benefits all. Silicon Valley is such an example for the technology world. There is a whole ecosystem in place for start-ups and existing tech companies to not only survive but thrive.
Money (aka survival) is important. But we should never take our eye off the prize. What we wish to contribute to the world, our own personal vision statement is far more important. Many people want to contribute and make a difference, but are afraid of doing so because of fear of not surviving the current, difficult demands of a consumer based, highly conditional culture.
I feel the solution is very simple, actually. Find something that you feel you wish to contribute. Find a way to do so and partner with others who wish to make a difference. Keep learning and honing your skills and share what you know with others. The beauty of a Giver Culture is the promise of a large community aligned in the hope to do just that. To make a difference, simply and practically.